Saturday, 12 December 2009

how to get a girl to notice you

First, the voices did not matter much, as long as attention to tone, pace, do not let a woman feel tired on the list.

The focus or the conversation. Women are many, and only three women ways to talk, listen, talk about and debate. Some women need to listen a little more, while others need to tell a little more. Some women have to quarrel with her. Vary their grasp.

More encouraging to listen to a story of people who will listen to stories of people who can speak a cry for a laugh, always toggle the other side of the Flanagan heart strings. Each woman has a dream of his picture, or fantasy. Also have their own shadows and melancholy, when a woman told you these are the basic is your person. However, these can not urgent, are ripe thing.

To listen to a variety of ways, unskilled can first use the substitution type, the other story at the time of themselves as the protagonist of the story, standing on each other's point of view and understand the content and mood of the story, naturally, and storyteller who has shared with . In order to properly raise the right questions, and the other side have the same feeling, so that the other side to find confidant feeling. A very simple truth, using each other's point of view, inevitable and the other have a common language. But this is not simply echo their views are sometimes even more depth than the other side. Paying attention to each other with their own emotions, and sometimes a woman spoke with emotion at this not cry out, and looking at your melancholy eyes Probably the cry, and sometimes she says have been a joke not funny, you help her rendering process what may be a laugh together. Therefore, substituting into the type of benefit that can be two people with the emotional volatility. Emotional interaction that there could be additive, and certainly not a people to laugh at the fun for two people to laugh at.

Not every woman is very shallow, there are a lot of stomach, there are goods, do not rush to express their views, if they did not view each other's depth and even the other side can not accept the view is not such as silence, listening to the process if you want to ask questions, must be able to continue to attract the other side go on the issue of the problem is not necessarily the question, the best topic of their own talking points along the other side, and then leads to the other party the following topics. One must pay attention to their own eyes. Curiosity, focus, disbelief, surprise, and so on for begun using. Do not stare at each other's view, should have the air of thinking, appears to listen to their intentions in the same time avoid others and speak for themselves, when they themselves have looked at each other's chest. Or do other distracting things.

The choice of topics, not deliberately, not closed mouth love love. Naturally the conversation diverted to the other good, or have more views on the other side of the field, bearing in mind the other party's interest, once the other party's interest is not high we must continue to change topics. Topics should change course, may wish to take a look at the other side to reflect their point of few, if reflected in a strong focus on this topic would be, no experience, can do something in preparation, at least to know each other's hobbies. For example the other side has just the trip, or just watched a movie, can be seen to relate far away far away. There are times and a woman chatting casually questions with how the hair is so black, say two hours, let us dye to dye her hair to the impact of more than a lot of good to say before, basically from the sensible to the present to tell the whole history of hair me, The last issue of military training student hair cut more than sad when you cry over sad. Then side-tracked from the crying first love, and then pull in too far. The whole process is basically a person she was speaking, her home is still downstairs, finally, I chatted for half an hour, take the time to KISS a bit. That is the first time we met. Quite simply a woman, she is also nothing special. Later, did not start with. In fact, I did not say anything other than the role of linking a step by step under the topic just cited. My name is all ready to go home that night I slept on the phone she asked me. Also said that KISS is now embarrassing blush of boys is not much that I lose the first time such a character, chat must be careful to find each other's glittering point, people have to show off the psychological, but it is inconvenient to take the initiative to say, other people talked about the positive response has been positive . When the other party to show off their own not just to listen to. Demeanor to keep up with the rhythm. Admiration, respect, should be open-minded and even sincere.

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