how to get a girl to go out with you

Step 1 is the most important thing you need to be confident. Stand up straight with great posture. Bad posture makes you look pathetic and sends out signals of a lack of confidence

Step 2. You need to find yourself a location where “you are in element“ and feel confident that is also visted by lots of girls, the best place to look for is a place where you can show off what ever skill you have, music, singing, dancing, anything!. Go out be yourself and have a blast - be the guy having fun with lots of energy. Guys who constantly look for women just staring and walking around are creepy.

Step 3. You need to be funny, girls love to laugh and have a good time. Now if you are not funny by nature, don’t push it don’t try too much. Just remember a dry humour or observation on the situation is ten times funnier than jokes with punch lines.

Step 4. "Plant the seeds". Casually flirt with girls such as waitresses, or bartenders. Make eye contact and smile and girls who are just passing by. Buy a woman a drink at a bar. Then just go back to your own business and enjoying your self with friends. You‘ll quickly find that women start coming up to you! Just make sure your nonchalant about everything. There is nothing to be worried about at all! There is nothing to lose even if you say the wrong thing because you don’t know these women!

Step 5. The most important thing is to make a connection figure out what things you too have in common remember to smile and add in a story of your own if she tells you something you can relate, yet make sure its not all about you, focus on her lots. Don‘t pretend to be someone that your not, you make think you will win her over by having lots in common but in the end she will find out and remember opposites attract! So focus on finding that common interest something that you too can share - find things to talk about it I mean lets be honest it would be real awkward if you and your soon to be girlfriend were out on a date and having nothing to talk about . If you don’t know what to talk about try talking to her about some of her interests, if you don’t know much about them or don’t like them, try to learn more about them, let her introduce you to them or figure out why she likes them. You can also talk about current events and works.

Step 6. The other important things are to remember a nice eye contact and avoid the friend zone. Establish your interest in her, flirt with her, and most importantly get her number and ask her out for another date. Do not say “would you like to go out sometime” or anything like that be exact “Would you like to go out on a date on Saturday” or something like that. Keep using the tips and being positive and go for that kiss J She’ll be yours in no time!

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