How to approach a girl

How to approach a girl

A huge problem that males have is that they are afraid to make moves towards women. Any successful man will tell you, you need to move past that fear. Don’t care what anyone else thinks, just act on what feels right. Another huge problem is that males have no idea where to start when approaching a girl. One of my favourite strategies daily is to try and make eye contact with the girl. If she makes no eye contact whatsoever (after repeated tries), she is probably not interested in you. If the girl makes eye contact, and if she quickly looks away and/or blushes and smiles, she is definitely into you.

Once you have a girl in your sights, and she passes the eye contact test, it’s time to move on to the next step. Depending on where you are, this will or will not work. If you are in a work environment, or in class at school, this method will work. What you want to do first is make up any excuse you can to go over to where the girl is sitting/standing. Throw a pencil, say you want to move because the light is in your eyes, just make up whatever excuse you can possibly think of to go over there. This scares a lot of guys, because they are afraid that the girl will think you are a creep, or just plain weird. However, if the girl in question does in fact like you, she will find it funny and charming that you went through all that trouble to come and talk to her.

If you are in a different environment, e.g.: bar/restaurant, there is a different method. One thing guys underestimate is the power of pickup lines. The cheesiest pickup lines are the best, and I know that sounds cliché, but it’s really true. 90% of the time, if you go up to a girl and say the lamest pickup line you could think of, she will find it charming and sweet, and become interested in you. The James Bond, classy, smooth approach rarely goes well with people who lack superb class and style, so I don’t recommend trying it.

It’s actually quite easy to approach girls, and with each attempt it becomes easier and easier. You will quickly master the art of approaching and beginning conversations with girls, and many possibilities stem from that one thing. Thanks for reading.