How to approach a girl
A huge problem that males have is that they are afraid to make moves towards women. Any successful man will tell you, you need to move past that fear. Don’t care what anyone else thinks, just act on what feels right. Another huge problem is that males have no idea where to start when approaching a girl. One of my favourite strategies daily is to try and make eye contact with the girl. If she makes no eye contact whatsoever (after repeated tries), she is probably not interested in you. If the girl makes eye contact, and if she quickly looks away and/or blushes and smiles, she is definitely into you.
Once you have a girl in your sights, and she passes the eye contact test, it’s time to move on to the next step. Depending on where you are, this will or will not work. If you are in a work environment, or in class at school, this method will work. What you want to do first is make up any excuse you can to go over to where the girl is sitting/standing. Throw a pencil, say you want to move because the light is in your eyes, just make up whatever excuse you can possibly think of to go over there. This scares a lot of guys, because they are afraid that the girl will think you are a creep, or just plain weird. However, if the girl in question does in fact like you, she will find it funny and charming that you went through all that trouble to come and talk to her.
If you are in a different environment, e.g.: bar/restaurant, there is a different method. One thing guys underestimate is the power of pickup lines. The cheesiest pickup lines are the best, and I know that sounds cliché, but it’s really true. 90% of the time, if you go up to a girl and say the lamest pickup line you could think of, she will find it charming and sweet, and become interested in you. The James Bond, classy, smooth approach rarely goes well with people who lack superb class and style, so I don’t recommend trying it.
It’s actually quite easy to approach girls, and with each attempt it becomes easier and easier. You will quickly master the art of approaching and beginning conversations with girls, and many possibilities stem from that one thing. Thanks for reading.
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Saturday, 12 December 2009
how to get a girl to go out with you
Step 1 is the most important thing you need to be confident. Stand up straight with great posture. Bad posture makes you look pathetic and sends out signals of a lack of confidence
Step 2. You need to find yourself a location where “you are in element“ and feel confident that is also visted by lots of girls, the best place to look for is a place where you can show off what ever skill you have, music, singing, dancing, anything!. Go out be yourself and have a blast - be the guy having fun with lots of energy. Guys who constantly look for women just staring and walking around are creepy.
Step 3. You need to be funny, girls love to laugh and have a good time. Now if you are not funny by nature, don’t push it don’t try too much. Just remember a dry humour or observation on the situation is ten times funnier than jokes with punch lines.
Step 4. "Plant the seeds". Casually flirt with girls such as waitresses, or bartenders. Make eye contact and smile and girls who are just passing by. Buy a woman a drink at a bar. Then just go back to your own business and enjoying your self with friends. You‘ll quickly find that women start coming up to you! Just make sure your nonchalant about everything. There is nothing to be worried about at all! There is nothing to lose even if you say the wrong thing because you don’t know these women!
Step 5. The most important thing is to make a connection figure out what things you too have in common remember to smile and add in a story of your own if she tells you something you can relate, yet make sure its not all about you, focus on her lots. Don‘t pretend to be someone that your not, you make think you will win her over by having lots in common but in the end she will find out and remember opposites attract! So focus on finding that common interest something that you too can share - find things to talk about it I mean lets be honest it would be real awkward if you and your soon to be girlfriend were out on a date and having nothing to talk about . If you don’t know what to talk about try talking to her about some of her interests, if you don’t know much about them or don’t like them, try to learn more about them, let her introduce you to them or figure out why she likes them. You can also talk about current events and works.
Step 6. The other important things are to remember a nice eye contact and avoid the friend zone. Establish your interest in her, flirt with her, and most importantly get her number and ask her out for another date. Do not say “would you like to go out sometime” or anything like that be exact “Would you like to go out on a date on Saturday” or something like that. Keep using the tips and being positive and go for that kiss J She’ll be yours in no time!
Learn how to talk to girls
Step 2. You need to find yourself a location where “you are in element“ and feel confident that is also visted by lots of girls, the best place to look for is a place where you can show off what ever skill you have, music, singing, dancing, anything!. Go out be yourself and have a blast - be the guy having fun with lots of energy. Guys who constantly look for women just staring and walking around are creepy.
Step 3. You need to be funny, girls love to laugh and have a good time. Now if you are not funny by nature, don’t push it don’t try too much. Just remember a dry humour or observation on the situation is ten times funnier than jokes with punch lines.
Step 4. "Plant the seeds". Casually flirt with girls such as waitresses, or bartenders. Make eye contact and smile and girls who are just passing by. Buy a woman a drink at a bar. Then just go back to your own business and enjoying your self with friends. You‘ll quickly find that women start coming up to you! Just make sure your nonchalant about everything. There is nothing to be worried about at all! There is nothing to lose even if you say the wrong thing because you don’t know these women!
Step 5. The most important thing is to make a connection figure out what things you too have in common remember to smile and add in a story of your own if she tells you something you can relate, yet make sure its not all about you, focus on her lots. Don‘t pretend to be someone that your not, you make think you will win her over by having lots in common but in the end she will find out and remember opposites attract! So focus on finding that common interest something that you too can share - find things to talk about it I mean lets be honest it would be real awkward if you and your soon to be girlfriend were out on a date and having nothing to talk about . If you don’t know what to talk about try talking to her about some of her interests, if you don’t know much about them or don’t like them, try to learn more about them, let her introduce you to them or figure out why she likes them. You can also talk about current events and works.
Step 6. The other important things are to remember a nice eye contact and avoid the friend zone. Establish your interest in her, flirt with her, and most importantly get her number and ask her out for another date. Do not say “would you like to go out sometime” or anything like that be exact “Would you like to go out on a date on Saturday” or something like that. Keep using the tips and being positive and go for that kiss J She’ll be yours in no time!
Learn how to talk to girls
How to get a girlfriend
How to get a girl friend the easy way!
This is the method i used for my last 4 gf's so i know it works...
What you will need:
1 Wing man that is less attrative than you
Moderate to high attractivness
Step 1: Your Target...
MAKE SURE SHE IS NOT DATING ANYONE!
You want to choose someone who is attractive to you and you don't know much...
Simply because they don't know you! witch means any flaws are hidden....
Step 2: The approch...
You want to (if you still in school) sit with her at lunch. Have your wingman sit at the same table near her at the
begining of lunch....this makes look like you had a reason to sit there beside her sitting there.
Greet you wingman first and talk with him a bit...greet the girl and talk to her a little bit and see if she seems friendly toward
you...if she does then it most likley means you have the possibilitie of dating her. Otherwise leave now and take your wingman with you...
by asking him to sit with your other buddies of course!
Step 3: Getting her to like you...
If you want a girl to like you, you got to be fair to well dressed, be a sweetheart (not to much but
just enough) and for god sakes take a shower and get yourself clean!
You also need to start haveing your wingman sit at that same spot near her everyday but make sure he and her don't talk to much...
to prevent her from liking him more than you. You must sit with him and her, be a sweetheart to her! Tell her she looks nice every day or two....compliment her on her hair
eyes or what ever you can find (beside sexual stuff like "Nice Ass!"). Try making a little physical contact with her arm or leg...
just put your arm agenst her arm or your legg agenst her leg casualy like you did it on accident and if she don't mind leaving her
arm or leg there than she likes you..however if she move her arm or leg away from yours she might still be interested just not comfortable with you toaching her atm.
If at first she jerks or gentally moves away try agien on another day about 1/2 to a full week and if she pulls away agien you may just have to be her friend for a while :)
Step 4: Hanging out outside of school or the work place...
This is vital to getting her to like you! You need to invite her over to study together or go on a date with her...
see a movie that she would like to see! Just ask if she wanted to see a movie somtime....and if she says yes ask her
if she has any movie in mind that she would like to see...
She will begin to like you in no time at all!
Step 5: Asking her to date you...
MAKE SURE SHES NOT DATING ANYONE AGIEN!!
This is probably the hardest part for me and most other guys...but if you get it right you will be in a happy relationship with the girl of your dreams!
First before you ask her you must be prepared! Think of how your going to ask her! Text messaging this question is not an option...neither is any
electronic form of asking....
If you ask in person it shows that your confident! Girls love that!
Practice in your mirror a couple times! Be absolutly sure you will remember what you are going to say and just try and stay realy calm and casual....
Start it with what you want but i usual start with "well...i was wondering if...."
If she says yes than congratzz bud you got yr self a girl!
If she says no....You've got your self a great new friend!
This is the method i used for my last 4 gf's so i know it works...
What you will need:
1 Wing man that is less attrative than you
Moderate to high attractivness
Step 1: Your Target...
MAKE SURE SHE IS NOT DATING ANYONE!
You want to choose someone who is attractive to you and you don't know much...
Simply because they don't know you! witch means any flaws are hidden....
Step 2: The approch...
You want to (if you still in school) sit with her at lunch. Have your wingman sit at the same table near her at the
begining of lunch....this makes look like you had a reason to sit there beside her sitting there.
Greet you wingman first and talk with him a bit...greet the girl and talk to her a little bit and see if she seems friendly toward
you...if she does then it most likley means you have the possibilitie of dating her. Otherwise leave now and take your wingman with you...
by asking him to sit with your other buddies of course!
Step 3: Getting her to like you...
If you want a girl to like you, you got to be fair to well dressed, be a sweetheart (not to much but
just enough) and for god sakes take a shower and get yourself clean!
You also need to start haveing your wingman sit at that same spot near her everyday but make sure he and her don't talk to much...
to prevent her from liking him more than you. You must sit with him and her, be a sweetheart to her! Tell her she looks nice every day or two....compliment her on her hair
eyes or what ever you can find (beside sexual stuff like "Nice Ass!"). Try making a little physical contact with her arm or leg...
just put your arm agenst her arm or your legg agenst her leg casualy like you did it on accident and if she don't mind leaving her
arm or leg there than she likes you..however if she move her arm or leg away from yours she might still be interested just not comfortable with you toaching her atm.
If at first she jerks or gentally moves away try agien on another day about 1/2 to a full week and if she pulls away agien you may just have to be her friend for a while :)
Step 4: Hanging out outside of school or the work place...
This is vital to getting her to like you! You need to invite her over to study together or go on a date with her...
see a movie that she would like to see! Just ask if she wanted to see a movie somtime....and if she says yes ask her
if she has any movie in mind that she would like to see...
She will begin to like you in no time at all!
Step 5: Asking her to date you...
MAKE SURE SHES NOT DATING ANYONE AGIEN!!
This is probably the hardest part for me and most other guys...but if you get it right you will be in a happy relationship with the girl of your dreams!
First before you ask her you must be prepared! Think of how your going to ask her! Text messaging this question is not an option...neither is any
electronic form of asking....
If you ask in person it shows that your confident! Girls love that!
Practice in your mirror a couple times! Be absolutly sure you will remember what you are going to say and just try and stay realy calm and casual....
Start it with what you want but i usual start with "well...i was wondering if...."
If she says yes than congratzz bud you got yr self a girl!
If she says no....You've got your self a great new friend!
how to get a girl to notice you
First, the voices did not matter much, as long as attention to tone, pace, do not let a woman feel tired on the list.
The focus or the conversation. Women are many, and only three women ways to talk, listen, talk about and debate. Some women need to listen a little more, while others need to tell a little more. Some women have to quarrel with her. Vary their grasp.
More encouraging to listen to a story of people who will listen to stories of people who can speak a cry for a laugh, always toggle the other side of the Flanagan heart strings. Each woman has a dream of his picture, or fantasy. Also have their own shadows and melancholy, when a woman told you these are the basic is your person. However, these can not urgent, are ripe thing.
To listen to a variety of ways, unskilled can first use the substitution type, the other story at the time of themselves as the protagonist of the story, standing on each other's point of view and understand the content and mood of the story, naturally, and storyteller who has shared with . In order to properly raise the right questions, and the other side have the same feeling, so that the other side to find confidant feeling. A very simple truth, using each other's point of view, inevitable and the other have a common language. But this is not simply echo their views are sometimes even more depth than the other side. Paying attention to each other with their own emotions, and sometimes a woman spoke with emotion at this not cry out, and looking at your melancholy eyes Probably the cry, and sometimes she says have been a joke not funny, you help her rendering process what may be a laugh together. Therefore, substituting into the type of benefit that can be two people with the emotional volatility. Emotional interaction that there could be additive, and certainly not a people to laugh at the fun for two people to laugh at.
Not every woman is very shallow, there are a lot of stomach, there are goods, do not rush to express their views, if they did not view each other's depth and even the other side can not accept the view is not such as silence, listening to the process if you want to ask questions, must be able to continue to attract the other side go on the issue of the problem is not necessarily the question, the best topic of their own talking points along the other side, and then leads to the other party the following topics. One must pay attention to their own eyes. Curiosity, focus, disbelief, surprise, and so on for begun using. Do not stare at each other's view, should have the air of thinking, appears to listen to their intentions in the same time avoid others and speak for themselves, when they themselves have looked at each other's chest. Or do other distracting things.
The choice of topics, not deliberately, not closed mouth love love. Naturally the conversation diverted to the other good, or have more views on the other side of the field, bearing in mind the other party's interest, once the other party's interest is not high we must continue to change topics. Topics should change course, may wish to take a look at the other side to reflect their point of few, if reflected in a strong focus on this topic would be, no experience, can do something in preparation, at least to know each other's hobbies. For example the other side has just the trip, or just watched a movie, can be seen to relate far away far away. There are times and a woman chatting casually questions with how the hair is so black, say two hours, let us dye to dye her hair to the impact of more than a lot of good to say before, basically from the sensible to the present to tell the whole history of hair me, The last issue of military training student hair cut more than sad when you cry over sad. Then side-tracked from the crying first love, and then pull in too far. The whole process is basically a person she was speaking, her home is still downstairs, finally, I chatted for half an hour, take the time to KISS a bit. That is the first time we met. Quite simply a woman, she is also nothing special. Later, did not start with. In fact, I did not say anything other than the role of linking a step by step under the topic just cited. My name is all ready to go home that night I slept on the phone she asked me. Also said that KISS is now embarrassing blush of boys is not much that I lose the first time such a character, chat must be careful to find each other's glittering point, people have to show off the psychological, but it is inconvenient to take the initiative to say, other people talked about the positive response has been positive . When the other party to show off their own not just to listen to. Demeanor to keep up with the rhythm. Admiration, respect, should be open-minded and even sincere.
The focus or the conversation. Women are many, and only three women ways to talk, listen, talk about and debate. Some women need to listen a little more, while others need to tell a little more. Some women have to quarrel with her. Vary their grasp.
More encouraging to listen to a story of people who will listen to stories of people who can speak a cry for a laugh, always toggle the other side of the Flanagan heart strings. Each woman has a dream of his picture, or fantasy. Also have their own shadows and melancholy, when a woman told you these are the basic is your person. However, these can not urgent, are ripe thing.
To listen to a variety of ways, unskilled can first use the substitution type, the other story at the time of themselves as the protagonist of the story, standing on each other's point of view and understand the content and mood of the story, naturally, and storyteller who has shared with . In order to properly raise the right questions, and the other side have the same feeling, so that the other side to find confidant feeling. A very simple truth, using each other's point of view, inevitable and the other have a common language. But this is not simply echo their views are sometimes even more depth than the other side. Paying attention to each other with their own emotions, and sometimes a woman spoke with emotion at this not cry out, and looking at your melancholy eyes Probably the cry, and sometimes she says have been a joke not funny, you help her rendering process what may be a laugh together. Therefore, substituting into the type of benefit that can be two people with the emotional volatility. Emotional interaction that there could be additive, and certainly not a people to laugh at the fun for two people to laugh at.
Not every woman is very shallow, there are a lot of stomach, there are goods, do not rush to express their views, if they did not view each other's depth and even the other side can not accept the view is not such as silence, listening to the process if you want to ask questions, must be able to continue to attract the other side go on the issue of the problem is not necessarily the question, the best topic of their own talking points along the other side, and then leads to the other party the following topics. One must pay attention to their own eyes. Curiosity, focus, disbelief, surprise, and so on for begun using. Do not stare at each other's view, should have the air of thinking, appears to listen to their intentions in the same time avoid others and speak for themselves, when they themselves have looked at each other's chest. Or do other distracting things.
The choice of topics, not deliberately, not closed mouth love love. Naturally the conversation diverted to the other good, or have more views on the other side of the field, bearing in mind the other party's interest, once the other party's interest is not high we must continue to change topics. Topics should change course, may wish to take a look at the other side to reflect their point of few, if reflected in a strong focus on this topic would be, no experience, can do something in preparation, at least to know each other's hobbies. For example the other side has just the trip, or just watched a movie, can be seen to relate far away far away. There are times and a woman chatting casually questions with how the hair is so black, say two hours, let us dye to dye her hair to the impact of more than a lot of good to say before, basically from the sensible to the present to tell the whole history of hair me, The last issue of military training student hair cut more than sad when you cry over sad. Then side-tracked from the crying first love, and then pull in too far. The whole process is basically a person she was speaking, her home is still downstairs, finally, I chatted for half an hour, take the time to KISS a bit. That is the first time we met. Quite simply a woman, she is also nothing special. Later, did not start with. In fact, I did not say anything other than the role of linking a step by step under the topic just cited. My name is all ready to go home that night I slept on the phone she asked me. Also said that KISS is now embarrassing blush of boys is not much that I lose the first time such a character, chat must be careful to find each other's glittering point, people have to show off the psychological, but it is inconvenient to take the initiative to say, other people talked about the positive response has been positive . When the other party to show off their own not just to listen to. Demeanor to keep up with the rhythm. Admiration, respect, should be open-minded and even sincere.
The truth about attracting women
The truth about attracting women is simple. All women want security. Once you find a woman don’t stop there, your goal is to get 777 women in your address book. Incase the other 776 fall out you got one left.
How to indicate to woman that you have security. Be clean cut. Get your haircut regularly, put a little bit of styling gel in your hair and give your self a little glow. Keep your finger nails cut. If you have facial hair on your face, shave some of it of and make a little design with the hair you do have on your face. Spray on cologne. Put on a couple gold rings on each hand and flash a gold chain. Look presentable.
Money is always a big factor in giving women security. Bottom line is a woman won’t want to come and live with you if she doesn’t know how you are going to feed her, or if she feels that she is going to be the only one providing. Have a resource of income you can draw back to and have proof that you are earning something.
Establish a plan for your self. Try to make contact with woman in how ever your comfortable making contact with them on a weekly basis. When your out in public, a public event or online community or dating sites.
Just picture your self as a telemarketer trying to sell a product. The women you are contacting are the buyers. The product your selling is your self. The women that respond to your approach of contact are your leads. And the women you end up being in a relationship with are your sales. So work as a telemarketing minded individual until you get your sale.
Don’t stop if you get a lead, keep on pursuing more women and keep on getting leads until you get your sale and your satisfied. Once you establish a lead with a woman try talking with them in honesty and get the points out that are important to you. Don’t waste a lot of time, on going out of your route and your needs, if the lead fails, you would rather have it fail early, then dedicating months into trying to build a relationship and then being a waste at the end.
Talk about your car, offer to pick them up for a ride and to hang out. Women don’t want to stay at home. Offer a lunch, and a movie. Just don’t give up and use my telemarketing strategy to sell your self until you get your sale.
How to indicate to woman that you have security. Be clean cut. Get your haircut regularly, put a little bit of styling gel in your hair and give your self a little glow. Keep your finger nails cut. If you have facial hair on your face, shave some of it of and make a little design with the hair you do have on your face. Spray on cologne. Put on a couple gold rings on each hand and flash a gold chain. Look presentable.
Money is always a big factor in giving women security. Bottom line is a woman won’t want to come and live with you if she doesn’t know how you are going to feed her, or if she feels that she is going to be the only one providing. Have a resource of income you can draw back to and have proof that you are earning something.
Establish a plan for your self. Try to make contact with woman in how ever your comfortable making contact with them on a weekly basis. When your out in public, a public event or online community or dating sites.
Just picture your self as a telemarketer trying to sell a product. The women you are contacting are the buyers. The product your selling is your self. The women that respond to your approach of contact are your leads. And the women you end up being in a relationship with are your sales. So work as a telemarketing minded individual until you get your sale.
Don’t stop if you get a lead, keep on pursuing more women and keep on getting leads until you get your sale and your satisfied. Once you establish a lead with a woman try talking with them in honesty and get the points out that are important to you. Don’t waste a lot of time, on going out of your route and your needs, if the lead fails, you would rather have it fail early, then dedicating months into trying to build a relationship and then being a waste at the end.
Talk about your car, offer to pick them up for a ride and to hang out. Women don’t want to stay at home. Offer a lunch, and a movie. Just don’t give up and use my telemarketing strategy to sell your self until you get your sale.
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